Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Haroon's Story

Once there was a mouse,doing his business was usual,as a mouse does> Adi-badi!! Everything was fine until he got himself in mess with his tail being pricked by a thorn. It was a big thron,as big as "when two hands are stretched sideways".
He went to a barber(As it always happen in a good story, a saviour pops up out of nowhere,a barber this time)to get his thorn removed and the hopeless barber tried to remove it with a razor which proved to be too sharp for the mouse's tail!
Angry mouse after having lost his tail yelled at barber," arey kaisey nilaley tum? mayri dum katgaye na!!!". without waiting for the barber to respond the angry mouse ran away with barber's most precious tool, his razor. a revenge well taken.

As the tail-less mouse ran on the street until he came across a wedding party.
at the wedding party...
to be (cont..d)

Sunday, February 15, 2009

I LOVE YOU

Three words that have changed the life of millions and is still changing as you read this.Such a beautiful phrase. I Love You.But, my inquisitive mind never understood it!!
I try to explore what exactly does "I love you" mean?

I began my research with a hypothesis " I LOVE YOU " means "All Selfish fall in Grief to end in Dispute and Discontent".

I started with first word,

1) "I"

I means I!
An alphabet thats a word in itself! I.
It denotes ego, pride, arrogance and selfishness. a wise man had said, I is most selfish one letter word, never use it!


2)Love
Love is actually a feeling , an emotion.
According to ROGER HIGHFIELD's article on the subject published in 'The Daily Telegraph' on February 14, 2007,"The effects of love on the brain are similar to those of cocaine, according to a team that has studied scans of love-struck people.
Some of the brain systems activated in people who are in love are similar to those active in people who have been recently rejected, according to an as-yet-unpublished study by the same team. This time they studied 15 lovelorn young people as they looked at pictures of their former partners."

"The Gresham Professor for Public Understanding of Psychiatry, Raj Persaud, who organized a Telegraph online Valentine's experiment, said, "What this important research is adding to is our understanding that love is one of the strongest of the basic drives — people when in love do extraordinary things.""

INFERENCE 1: Love equal insanity.

The researchers found that empathy activates the same regions of the brain that process these context-dependent aspects of pain, including the anterior insula and anterior cingulate. Knowing your loved one is in pain automatically activates the subjective pain-processing regions of your brain, which leads to empathy. But the areas involved in processing the exact location of the pain in your body as well as the objective intensity of the pain are involved only when you experience pain in yourself.
The researchers studied how this all played out by using a brain-scanning technique called functional magnetic resonance imaging, or fMRI. In the experiments, women who reported the strongest feelings of empathy showed the greatest activity in the context-dependent pain regions as their loved ones endured simulated bee stings. Even when the women didn’t see their partners’ pained faces, their brains reacted.(ref: How your brain handles love and pain http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/4313263/)

There is no pain so great as the memory of joy in present grief.
~Aeschylus, founder of Greek tragedy
INFERENCE 3 : Love leads to painful memory

Its the most used four letter word. yes, you read it right, USED. love leads to being used.

INFERENCE 4: feeling of being used

OXYTOCIN is a Love harmone that work on the brain to signal love, this when induced more releases signals of pain. Love and Pain work on the same part of brain with same harmone.

In short this one line explains everything “Love means exposing yourself to the pain of being hurt, deeply hurt by someone you trust.”

INFERENCE 5: same part of brain,chemical responds to pain and love.

so now, Love equals Pain/Hurt/Insanity/Being Used, in short we can say that love means disaster.


"YOU"

you is the start of a blame game.
Every blame start with YOU, Every disagreement or dispute start with YOU, Every fight discord starts with 'you' or 'your'. In short you is not a nice word, it leads to fight, disagreement and dispute.All dispute have arrogance as a base.

Now if we put all the inferences together we have

I = Pride/Selfish/Ego
Love = Pain/Grief/Insanity/Being Used
YOU = Disagreement/Discontent/Dispute

Now we can say I Love you means>

All Selfish and prideful fall in grief to end in dispute

or

Egoistically Painful Arrogance of a dispute.

or

Be proud to loose and grief in discontentment.


Hence the Hypothesis stands Proved: Quod Erat Demonstrandum.

To further strengthen my research i have following references from Internet.

www.theaurus.com, it says, "no results found" , " did you mean 'Alive' ? "! Alive???? so does I love you mean 'dead'? or trying to live? now, i am getting little worried.

www.references.com gives a detailed list of references to songs, movies, endless crap.. does Love mean Crap?

I thought www.dicitonary.com should give an exact meaning of what this phrase means.
but, here it simply redirects to www.ask.com or google search and simply shows many links to youtube , movies, songs, translations, cards and every thing except the explanation..
'100 reasons why i love you',
'different ways to say i love you'...,
'I love you' images!
Very weird, does love leave a human agitated and more confused? does love mean confusion?

I have never seen anyone rise in love, everyone I know fall in love, does love mean to belittle yourself?

the most interesting result was from www.Wiekipedia.com, it says I love you is a Virus and it comes with an attachment "love letter for you", very interesting!!

A Friend of mine contributed, said he found this on net (unknown source)

To find Love you need Money and Time
so
Love = Time x Money
Time, is always denoted by Money
so now we can say,
Love = Money x Money
OR
Love = Money2 (Money Square)

Money has always proved to be root cause of problem.

Money = square root of Problem

Now we can replace Money with Square root of Problem.
Love = Sqr root of Problem2

ie
Love = Problem.

! ! !

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Eventually

Everything falls in place at one point or another.


We are mere spectators of this spectacular display of myriad colours and emotions which is to a epic proportions, epic, actually, is a too small word to describe it.


The agony, the pain, the misery, the loneliness, the isolation, the despreration

The joy, the sorrow,the pleasure. Its all ment to be, but, in the end it all falls in place.

The purpose is beyond human mind,

The journey is beyond human endevours,

The destination is undisclosed but certain,

Eventually paving way for everything to fall in place.


It’s a very large canvas that we tiny humans paint,One bit at a time, One row a period, one line an event,

Bit by bit step by step….eventually it all falls in place.

And when it does falls into place, quiet a few of us are lucky enough to see it fall in place, to see how magnificent the end result is!


Every life a master piece

Every bit, every moment a purposeful stroke

Every failure, every success a contrasting meadow of colours

Every life a breath taking piece of work.

Cause eventually everything will fall into place.


Joy in hues of pink and red,love and hate in a contrasting interplay of black and white,sorrow in a grey,hope and aspirations in green and purple and yellow,

Eventually every life more complex than a Picasso.


Eventually.